A tribute to all the young women who are constantly attempting to be bigger than the patriarchal shadows cast upon them. (This is in specific response to the most recent mauling by hundreds of men, of a girl who was making a video on Independence Day at Minar-e-Pakistan – a monument ironically, symbolising freedom and self determination).
There was once an average girl
Average I use to disclaim
That she was your happy gal next door
Not your wild and sassy dame
Not that there’s much wrong with that
It’s for those who tend to decry
The women greater than their veil
Behind which they ought to hide
Hide away from prying eyes
Hide away from sin
Hide their bodies, hands and feet
Hide their existence
The Sin that marches all about
Ready to be employed
In the lawless caveman hands
Of any man or boy
She decided she was bigger than
The shadows that cloaked her being
She was going to live her life
She would do so many things
She already had a fan base
She was a minor TikTok star
She would post quirky things
Of her adventures near and far
And so it was on Freedom Day
Full of patriotic zeal
That she went to the Minar*
To capture the national feel
And there is when it happened
The Sin awaiting its Amen
Was pulled to its fruition
By hundreds of stir-crazed men
Mauled and savaged was that girl
Because she had essayed
To be more than the sum of her
Shadows and opaque veils
And that’s the ominous legacy
Our nation tends to bestow
On any woman who attempts
To spread her wings, to grow.
There was once an average girl
She’s as average as she seems
In the Rank and file of nameless girls
Who’s dreams have been “washed clean”


* Minar: Means “Tower” in Urdu. Here it refers to Minar-e-Pakistan
Read Part One here: https://theroamingdesi.org/2021/04/15/tiktok/