LIFE-SKILLS SERIES👦🏽 | EVERYONE SHINES DIFFERENTLY

(For ages 7 – 10)

Babur came from school one day
With a thoughtful look he said
Dad, what would you do if you saw
A different kind of a kid?

Babur’s dad had his glasses on
The wise-owl ones with strings
He wore them to read the paper and also
When he talked of important things

He pushed his glasses up his nose
They were big and framed in black
He smiled, took a sip of tea
Come here son, let’s have a chat

Now tell me what you mean
When you say a different child?
Did he scribble on the walls
Did he run around all wild?

No, no Dad said Babur
He couldn’t stop laughing
We both know that most kids do
Those naughty-fun things

This kid was in a wheelchair
And he couldn’t move his legs at all
In the break, he sat alone
While the rest of us played ball

I wanted to go and talk to him
But I didn’t know what to say
So I played the game, then had my lunch
From him, we all stayed away

Darling son, everyone is born different
Some of those differences we can’t see
Others are more visible but they need not
Make one ill at ease

There are people everywhere
Who live with a disability
Some with one, some with more
Real heroes in our society

When you see someone who looks
Different from what you are used to
Use the golden rule - Treat them
As you would, they treat you


That just means showing empathy
Putting yourself in their shoes
Then thinking of how you would want others
To see and talk to you

Kindness and openness are both
Important attributes
And another rule of thumb my dear
Is to just in fact be YOU!

A boy may speak a little slow
Or need some time before he goes
Be patient, wait and he will share
His thoughts and you will know

A girl might flap her hands with glee
It helps her feel just right
She dances like a bumblebee
A joyful, buzzing sight

Some kids don’t like a crowded space
It makes them feel unsure
A gentle smile, a friendly face
Can help them feel secure

We all like games and fun and play
But some might join in late
If someone plays a different way
Just let them find their pace

In every mind a garden grows
With thoughts like seeds that bloom
Just give them time and you will see
Their ideas fill the room

So if you feel like saying hello
To the new boy in your school
Just go up to him and introduce yourself
That’s another golden rule

Don’t lean on his chair or talk from above
Try to put yourself at his eye level
These are little graces to make
The other person feel comfortable

Babur and his dad had that chat
Over a month ago
Babur and Adam are now friends
Adam is an ace at Lego!

The boys have their lunches together
They’ve even been to the seaside
There they won the Best Sand Castle award
Adam and Babur both glowed with pride

The beauty of our wonderful world
Lies in its people, 8 billion of them
Each one different, each one unique
Each one a potential friend

Wheelchairs and white canes, crutches and hearing aids
They are all just helpful means
The people who use them are full of life
Just like you and me

Don’t be afraid of differences on the outside
Go kindly into the world
People are like jewels, precious and bright
Some are like silver, others like gold.

VERSE | DIFFERENT

I met her on the internet
We had a little chat
For fifteen or twenty minutes
It wasn’t more than that

The next day at 3pm
I saw my screen light up
There was a message waiting
She had not given up!

I smiled, nay beamed it was
Uplifting and sublime
That this lovely lass could one day
Be a real friend of mine

She had put up a photo
In the app display online
I tended to opt for staid old men
Quoting their pithy lines

The weeks they turned into months
She suggested finally
That we should meet up somewhere
For sandwiches and tea

I was torn, I was in two minds
To go or not to go
I had had some experience
Of dejection and of woe

But she seemed different
Grounded, honest and mature
So I bested my insecurities
Of one score years and four

I walked in early and sat down
I ordered a latte
I waited looking at the door
And then I saw her face

Gleaming, hopeful, expectant
She glanced around the room
Our eyes met for a bit and then
She looked away confused

She lingered for a while before
She glided out of there
With my disillusionment and coffee
I sat in my wheelchair.